Key Takeaways
- Tinder tab tom ntxiv qhov kev txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau los rau cov neeg siv uas xav kom paub txog cov hnub muaj peev xwm.
- Cov kev txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau los yuav muab cov ntaub ntawv zoo li keeb kwm ntawm kev ua phem lossis kev tsim txom thiab kev txwv txiav.
- Cov kws tshaj lij hais tias lub ntiaj teb kev sib tham hauv online muaj kev phom sij, thiab nco ntsoov xav txog koj txoj kev nyab xeeb tshaj nrhiav kev hlub.
Tinder yuav sai sai no tso cai rau koj los ua qhov kev txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau los ntawm hnub muaj peev xwm hauv kev cia siab tias yuav ua rau kev sib tham hauv online muaj kev nyab xeeb rau txhua tus neeg koom nrog.
Qhov ntxiv ntawm kev txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau yuav tso cai rau cov neeg siv saib seb cov neeg lawv nyiam puas muaj cov ntaub ntawv ua txhaum cai txaus ntshai. Nrog rau kev sib tham hauv online tau dhau los ua tus qauv rau ntau thiab ntau tus neeg, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj kev sib kis, cov kws tshaj lij hais tias kev tshuaj xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau yog qhov tsim nyog ntxiv rau lub ntiaj teb kev sib tham.
"Kuv xav tias Tinder ntxiv qhov no yog qhov ci ntsa iab," Susan Winter, tus kws tshaj lij kev sib raug zoo hauv New York City thiab tus kws qhia kev hlub, hais rau Lifewire hauv xov tooj.
Peb tsis paub leej twg yog tus tom qab qhov profile: peb tsis paub tias lawv yog ib leeg, yog lawv yog ib tus neeg saib xyuas, yog lawv raug mob…peb tsis paub txawm tias lawv xav tau kev sib raug zoo.”
Kev phom sij ntawm kev sib tham online
Tinder yog koom tes nrog cov tsis muaj txiaj ntsig online tshawb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau platform, Garbo, los muab kev xaiv ntawm kev txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau rau nws cov neeg siv. Cov neeg siv yuav tuaj yeem them nyiaj kom tau txais daim ntawv txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau, nrog cov ntsiab lus xws li cov ntaub ntawv raug ntes lossis keeb kwm ntawm kev ua phem, los ntawm kev sau lawv hnub tim tus xov tooj thiab lub npe tag nrho.
Garbo lub vev xaib hais tias nws sau "cov ntaub ntawv pej xeem thiab tshaj tawm txog kev ua phem lossis kev tsim txom, suav nrog kev ntes, kev txiav txim siab, txwv kev txiav txim, kev thab plaub, thiab lwm yam kev ua phem phem," txhua yam koj yuav tsum paub txog ib tug neeg ua ntej ntsib lawv ntawm tus kheej.
Ntau tus neeg twb tau kuaj xyuas lawv cov hnub los ntawm kev dhia dej tob rau hauv lawv cov social media profiles thiab scouring lawv cov hneev taw hauv internet. Tab sis txij li kev tshaj xov xwm tsuas yog qhia koj tias tib neeg xav kom koj pom txog lawv li cas, Lub Caij Nplooj Ntoos Zeeg tau hais tias Tinder cov yam ntxwv tshiab yuav dhau qhov kev tshaj tawm xov xwm.
Thaum lub zeem muag ntawm kev hlub nyob tom ntej, tib neeg yuav ua tej yam uas lawv yuav tsis ua.
"[Tinder] tau sim tshem tawm kev ua phem thiab tsis tsim nyog txaus ntshai," nws hais. "[Kev kuaj keeb kwm yav dhau] yog qhov tob tob tiag tiag ntawm no."
Cov kws qhia kev sib raug zoo zoo li Amie Leadingham tau hais tias nws thiab nws cov neeg siv khoom tau ua cov ntawv txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau los ntawm kev sib tham rau xyoo.
""[Cov ntaub ntawv keeb kwm yav dhau los] yog hais txog kev tau txais cov ntaub ntawv tawm ntawm lub rooj rau pem hauv ntej kom koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab koj tus kheej kev kawm yog tias koj xav mus ntsib lawv lossis tsis," nws hais.
Thaum kev sib tham hauv online ua rau muaj kev phom sij, kwv yees li 19% ntawm cov poj niam nruab nrab ntawm 18-34 qhia tias ib tus neeg ntawm qhov chaw sib tham tau hem ua rau lawv lub cev, raws li kev tshawb fawb 2020 Pew Research. Txoj kev tshawb no kuj pom tau tias 35% ntawm tag nrho cov neeg siv sib tham hauv online hais tias ib tug neeg tau xa lawv cov lus qhia txog kev sib deev lossis duab uas lawv tsis tau thov.
Lub caij ntuj no hais tias kev sib tham hauv online muaj kev pheej hmoo tseem cuam tshuam nrog cov neeg dag ntxias-txhua tus neeg hais tias lawv yog ib tus neeg uas lawv tsis yog lossis lwm tus neeg muab nyiaj rau lawv. Raws li Tsoom Fwv Teb Chaws Kev Lag Luam Kev Lag Luam, tshaj tawm txog kev poob cuam tshuam txog kev sib deev kev dag ntxias tau mus txog cov ntaub ntawv ntawm $ 304 lab xyoo tas los.
"Yuav ua li cas rau txhua tus ntawm kuv cov neeg siv khoom hauv online sib tham yog lawv tsoo phab ntsa uas lawv chim siab heev thiab poob siab ntawm kev dag, dag, thiab tsis raug," nws hais.
Nyob nyab xeeb
Tinder qhov kev txheeb xyuas keeb kwm yav dhau los tsis muaj qhov tsis ntseeg yuav muab cov hnub sib tham online muaj kev nyab xeeb dua rau kev kuaj xyuas lawv cov hnub ua ntej, tab sis cov kws tshaj lij hais tias tseem muaj qee yam uas koj tuaj yeem ua kom muaj kev nyab xeeb thaum ntsib nrog ib tus neeg koj tsuas yog tham hauv online.
Ua ntej hnub tseem pib, Leadingham tau hais kom ua koj qhov kev tshawb fawb los ntawm cov duab rov qab tshawb xyuas koj lub hnub cov duab (kom paub tseeb tias nws yog lawv tiag tiag), thiab teeb tsa tus lej email thiab Google lub suab kom tib neeg tsis tuaj yeem siv koj cov ntaub ntawv ntiag tug los nrhiav koj qhov chaw nyob. Txog hnub nws tus kheej, cov kws tshaj lij hais tias kom ceev nws cov pej xeem thiab khaws nws ua ntej hnub.
"Tsis muaj dej haus yav tsaus ntuj thiab tsis mus rau ib tus neeg lub tsev kom txog thaum lawv dhau tag nrho cov kev xeem," Lub caij ntuj no hais.
Lub caij ntuj no ntxiv tias yog ib tus neeg pheej hais txog kev sib ntsib tsuas yog haus cawv lossis hmo ntuj xwb, tus chij liab.
Leadingham kuj tau hais kom txiav txim siab txog kev nyab xeeb ntsig txog kev sib kis, nrog rau thaj tsam kev noj qab haus huv tib neeg tam sim no muaj.
"Nrog rau kev sib kis, tam sim no nws muaj ntau dua li koj saib koj qhov kev noj qab haus huv," nws hais. "Koj xav nrhiav ib tus neeg uas muaj kev nyab xeeb tib yam kev xav thiab qhov tseem ceeb uas koj ua."
Zuag qhia tag nrho, Lub caij ntuj no hais tias cov neeg nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb kev sib tham yuav tsum xav txog kev nyab xeeb ntau dua, vim tias, hauv kev nrhiav kev hlub, qhov tseem ceeb feem ntau raug thawb mus rau sab.
"Thaum lub zeem muag ntawm kev hlub nyob tom ntej, tib neeg yuav ua tej yam uas lawv yuav tsis ua," nws hais.